1st Edition

Surviving and Transcending a Traumatic Childhood The Dark Thread

206 Pages
by Routledge

212 Pages
by Routledge

212 Pages
by Routledge

A powerful guide to transcending childhood trauma—from the people who’ve done it It’s like a dark thread woven through a piece of cloth: You can’t pull it out without unraveling the whole thing. And it shows up here and there among all the other threads. Surviving and Transcending a Traumatic Childhood: The Dark Thread weaves together 90 stories of survival to create a silver lining of hope... Read more
  • Foreword (David H. Olson)
  • Acknowledgments
  • Chapter 1. Introduction
  • Importance of the Topic
  • About the Study
  • About the Participants
  • Intended Audience
  • Organization of the Book
  • Chapter 2. Surviving As Children
  • Beginning of the Trauma
  • Common Feelings Associated with Trauma
  • People Who Helped
  • Factors That Helped
  • Conclusion
  • Chapter 3. Transcending As Adults
  • Spirituality
  • Therapy and/or Support Groups
  • Getting Married
  • Escaping from the Abuse
  • Looking Forward, Not Back
  • Conclusion
  • Chapter 4. School
  • It Was a Sin to Overeat
  • My Nickname Was “The Retard”
  • Once There Was a Seedling in the Forest
  • Life Is What You Make It
  • Chapter 5. Religion and Spirituality
  • I Was Sexually Abused by My Father and My Mother Tried to Kill Me
  • Inside I Was Dying
  • Evil and Sin Are Ignorance Acted Upon
  • Chapter 6. Pariah or Paragon
  • Nothing Is As Important As Loving Somebody and Having Somebody Love You
  • The School Kids Called Us “The Crazy Gene Sorenson Kids”
  • You Can Be the Sum of Your Own Choices and Not the Product of Your Past
  • Chapter 7. People Who Helped
  • I Blame My Parents, My Brothers, and God
  • I Almost Died Before I Realized That the Only Person Abusing Me Now Was Me
  • Chapter 8. It Made Me a Better Person
  • What Was, Was, It Cannot Be Changed. What Is, Is, But It Can Be Changed. What Comes, Comes, Be on the Offensive
  • From Angel Child to the Devil’s Child by the Age of Six
  • I Have Seen the Dark Side of People; I Am Even More Determined to See the Light
  • I Am a Walking Miracle; It Helps Me Believe in Other Miracles
  • Chapter 9. What We Have Learned
  • What Happened
  • When It Happened and When It Ended
  • Common Feelings Associated with Trauma
  • People Who Helped
  • Factors That Helped During Childhood
  • Who They Are Today
  • Factors That Helped During Adulthood
  • Helping Children Survive and Adults Transcend
  • Appendix A. Selected Readings
  • Appendix B. A Self-Study Guide
  • References
  • Index

Biography

Skogrand, Linda; DeFrain, John; DeFrain, Nikki; Jones, Jean