1st Edition

Sex and the Sacred Gay Identity and Spiritual Growth

By Daniel A Helminiak Copyright 2006
260 Pages
by Routledge

260 Pages
by Routledge

260 Pages
by Routledge

A down-to-earth look at the spiritual power of sex Sex and the Sacred examines the spiritual dimension of human sexuality in a way that is free of religious affiliation but still open to traditional religion and belief in God. Dr. Daniel Helminiak, author of the best-selling What the Bible Really Says about Homosexuality, looks at the relationship between sexuality and spirituality, first, from a... Read more
  • The Cover Art: A Gay Spiritual Journey (Heather L. Marrs)
  • Foreword (Moderator Troy D. Perry)
  • Preface and Acknowledgments
  • Chapter 1. The Spiritual Dimension of the Lesbian and Gay Experience
  • The Senseless Burden of a Bad Conscience
  • The Meaning of “Spiritual”
  • The Inner Push Toward Spiritual Growth
  • Coming Out As a Spiritual Exercise
  • Love As a Spiritual Exercise
  • Gay Strength, Virtue, Wisdom, and Spiritual Growth
  • Detours from the Spiritual Path
  • The Tug-of-War Between Religion and Spirituality
  • Spirituality Without God or Religion
  • Chapter 2. A Spiritual Lesson from the AIDS Epidemic
  • A Humanist Spirituality
  • The Spiritual Dimension of the Gay and Lesbian Experience
  • Nontheist Gay Spirituality in the Face of Death
  • Final Considerations
  • Chapter 3. Sexuality and Spirituality: Friends, Not Foes
  • Positive Attitudes
  • Negative Attitudes
  • Reemerging Positive Attitudes
  • Renewed Interest in Spirituality
  • Integration of Body, Psyche, and Spirit
  • Embodied Spirituality
  • Means of Integration
  • Conclusion
  • Chapter 4. Sexual Self-Acceptance and Spiritual Growth
  • Spiritual Development and Human Development
  • Sexual Self-Acceptance and Self-Esteem
  • Sexuality and the Handicapped
  • Acceptance of One’s Homosexuality and Self-Esteem
  • Conclusion
  • Chapter 5. Sexual Pathways to Spiritual Growth
  • Sexual Arousal and Orgasm: Focus on the Individual
  • Loving Another Person: Focus on the Couple
  • The Pollyanna Effect: Focus on the Human Family and the Cosmos
  • Loneliness, That Endless Yearning: Focus on the Infinite
  • The Goodness of Creation: Enter Belief in God
  • Sexual Fulfillment in God: Enter Concern for Union with God
  • Summary About Sexuality and Spirituality
  • Chapter 6. Sexual Ethics Without Religion
  • The True Nature of Ethics
  • Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual Dimensions of Human Sexuality
  • Ethical Guidelines
  • The Personal and Interpersonal Nature of Human Sexuality
  • The Social Implications of Human Sexuality
  • The Promise of Ethical Living
  • Chapter 7. The Right and Wrong of Sex, Queer and Otherwise
  • The Challenge of Ethics for the Gay Community
  • Reasons to Consider Sexual Ethics
  • Gay Is Good
  • Science-Based Ethics
  • One’s Personal Best
  • Ethical Guidelines
  • The Ethical Attitude
  • Chapter 8. The Spiritual Crisis in Religion and Society
  • The Sad Record of Religion and Violence
  • The Political Side of Religion
  • Religion, Spirituality, and the Current Dilemma
  • Humanity As Inherently Spiritual
  • Built-In Requirements of Spiritual Fulfillment
  • Science That Is Open to God
  • A Spiritual Response to Religiously Motivated Violence
  • Chapter 9. Jesus: A Model for Coming Out
  • Mark’s Picture of Jesus
  • Jesus As God Incarnate in Later Christianity
  • Jesus’ Self-Understanding
  • Jesus’ Claim to Unprecedented Authority
  • Jesus’ “Crisis of Identity”
  • Jesus’ Experience of Being Himself
  • Jesus As Everyman—and Everywoman
  • The Lesson of Mark and Jesus
  • Chapter 10. The Trinitarian Vocation of the Gay Community
  • Christian Belief About the Trinity
  • Human Relationships Within the Gay Community
  • The Gay Community As Trinitarian
  • The Vocation of Gay Christians
  • Chapter 11. Homosexuality in Catholic Teaching and Practice
  • The Heterosexual Issue: Birth Control
  • The Nature of Sex
  • “Comple

Biography

Daniel A Helminiak