Biography
Stephen Kahn, Erika Fromm
"This very revealing and informative book examines the kinds of change that can occur in the therapist as a result of a relationship developed in therapy."
—READINGS: A Journal of Reviews and Commentary in Mental Health"This book is a welcome and important contribution consisting of personal stories about change and the reflections on the factors that may have influenced that process....Readers will find [it] to be stimulating and thought-provoking....This fascinating book has the potential to stimulate clinicians and researchers alike to learn more about the multitude of ways in which we are changed by...therapeutic encounters."
—American Journal of Clinical Hypnosis"....As Irvin Yalom reminds us in his excellent books on psychotherapy...it is a good therapist who can learn from the relationship with a patient, making it a bidirectional 'give and take.' The existential issues in psychotherapy are powerful ones. The challenge is to examine the obstacles to having an authentic relationship and remove them by being honest and open, using one's here-and-now reactions as fuel for the fire of therapy. This means modeling as well as promoting change, showing patients that you respect them enough to change with them. There is an old saying that 'It is a smart hypnotist that knows who is hypnotizing whom.' Smart therapists know how to grow with their patients. This book is thoughtfully put together and provides a broad range of well-described experiences from seasoned psychotherapists. Enjoy it and let it change you."
—David Spiegel, MD
Stanford University School of Medicine, From the Foreword
