© 2011 – Routledge
234 pages | 1 B/W Illus.
Sex in Psychotherapy takes a psychodynamic approach to understanding recent technological and theoretical shifts in the field of psychotherapy. Lawrence Hedges provides an expert overview and analysis of a wide variety of new perspectives on sex, sexuality, gender, and identity; new theories about sex’s role in therapy; and new discoveries about the human brain and how it works. Therapists will value Hedges’s unique insights into the role of sexuality in therapy, which are grounded in the author’s studies of neurology, the history of sexuality, transference, resistance, and countertransference. Clinicians will also appreciate his provocative analyses of influential perspectives on sex, gender, and identity, and his lucid, concrete advice on the practice of therapeutic listening.
"Overall, this is a volume that gives one much to consider, especially in examining one's own performance in interacting with clients. This is an important and useful book for those who practice or wish to learn intensive therapeutic techniques." - Charles Golden in PsycCRITIQUES, March 2011
"This is a book of disarming honesty, courage and insight. It is clear, concise and direct in describing an aspect of the psychotherapeutic relationship that is often not addressed…What makes this book remarkable is that Hedges is not content to be theoretical…Rather he illustrates the evidence of each of these developmental perspectives in the therapeutic encounter with first-person stories which tell how the therapist recognized and addressed these interpersonal dynamics…illustrative and positive: it encourages one to realize that one can bring one's humanity to bear in a therapeutic way." - Brad DeFord, Ph.D., in Illness, Crisis & Loss
"…quickly the work grabbed my attention. What is helpful and I appreciated, was the validation I felt when I read the authors' willingness to name and own his therapeutic errors. So often, this material is unavailable because a sense of shame stops us presenting and maximising the powerful learning that can be gained when it all goes wrong. At a time where there is a paucity of material available on this area of our work, this book will contribute to all therapists." - Sally Openshaw, COSRT Accredited Fellow, private practice, Bideford, Devon, UK, in Sexual and Relationship Therapy
Introduction: “Boy Meets Girl”: A Just-so Story about Sexuality. Part I: Perspectives for Considering Sex, Sexuality, Gender, and Gender Identity. The Natural/Religious/Biological Perspective. The Infant-Caregiver/Erotic Interaction Perspective. The Personal Identity Perspective. The Perspective of Dissociation, Otherness, and Multiple Selves. The Postmodern/Social Constructionist Perspective. The Race/Ethnicity/Sexuality Perspective. The Perspective of Mimetics. The Perspective of Trauma and Transgenerational Ghosts. The Intersubjective Perspective. The Relational/Thirdness Perspective. Part II: Published Accounts of Sex in Psychotherapy. Some Relational Countertransference Issues. Developmental Listening. Listening Perspective I—The Personality in Organization: The Search for Relatedness. Listening Perspective II—Symbiosis and Separation: Mutually-dependent Relatedness. Listening Perspective III—The Emergent Self: Unilaterally Dependent Relatedness. Listening Perspective IV—Self and Other Constancy: Independent Relatedness.
Part III: Three Extended Case Studies Illustrating Sex and Sexuality in the Transference, Resistance, and Countertransference of Psychotherapy. Dora: Eros in the Transference. Ted: Eros in the Resistance. Charles: Eros in the Countertransference. References.