1st Edition

Eternity and Me The Everlasting Things in Life and Death

By Allan Kellehear Copyright 2004
    200 Pages
    by Routledge

    200 Pages
    by Routledge

    The 40 short reflections in this book address the ways in which we face the prospect of death and loss. The first 20 reflections are designed to be read by (or to) anyone living with a life-threatening illness; the other 20 are reflections on living with grief, especially bereavement. Each reflection is based on a single story drawn from one of three sources: Dr. Kellehear's professional experience with individuals living with dying or loss; his own experiences and stories from childhood; and the retelling of some of the great myths and legends about life, love, and death, selected from around the world-from Ireland to Japan, from Melanesia to China. The book is written to be accessible to a wide general audience.It can be read from beginning to end like a conventional book; each self-contained piece is also suitable for reading on a bus, train, or plane journey, or before bed at night. Each piece can be selected as a stand-alone meditation for use as a discussion topic in pastoral care, counseling, or sermons. These reflections are stories about how we can make the most of life in the shadow of death and loss. They are designed to instill hope and meaning in the difficult times that can accompany human mortality.

    The Good Story of Life
    When death knocks at our door . . .
    1 The Tree of Life
    2 Fear and Dread
    3 Friendship
    4 The Question
    5 Near-Death Experiences
    6 The Body
    7 Sex
    8 The Burden of Peter Schlemihl
    9 Christmas with Andy
    10 Joy
    11 God
    12 Your Best Offer
    13 Monsters
    14 Astronaut
    15 Planning and Preparing
    16 A Living Thing
    17 Shareholders
    18 Your Fortune in Cairo
    19 What will it be like for you?
    20 Everlasting Things
    Death and society and truth and fairy tale
    21 Death: Worth Living For
    22 Death and Social Attitudes
    23 Public Notice
    24 A History Lesson
    25 Room for a View
    26 Visitor to No. 23
    27 Not Fate
    28 Life and Death
    29 Loss
    30 Eternity and Me
    Secrets of the clasped hands of the heart
    31 Grief
    32 The Legend of the White Butterfly
    33 Death Pact
    34 Folly
    35 Concerning Tears
    36 Not Being There
    37 The First Friend
    38 Missing and Hoping
    39 The Comfort of Darkness
    40 To Honor Their Memory
    Parting Words
    At Day's End
    Index

    Biography

    Professor Allan Kellehear is a medical and public health sociologist with interests in death, dying and end of life care. In addition to two previous chairs in England (at the Universities of Bath and Middlesex), and is Professor at Faculty of Health Studies, University of Bradford.