1st Edition

A Gestalt Approach to Couples Therapy The Dance of Difference

By Nicole Chew-Helbig Copyright 2026
146 Pages 1 B/W Illustrations
by Routledge

146 Pages 1 B/W Illustrations
by Routledge

146 Pages 1 B/W Illustrations
by Routledge

This book offers a framework for understanding and improving relationships through the lens of Gestalt therapy. It examines the paradox of intimacy—how genuine connection emerges from embracing individuality in a relationship—and how to navigate the dynamic tension between autonomy and togetherness. Readers will benefit from practical tools, theoretical insights, and engaging case examples... Read more

Part I: Foundations of Presence

Chapter 1: First Contact - The Phenomenological Encounter

Chapter 2: Trauma in the Relational Field

Part II: The Paradox of Change

Chapter 3: The Paradoxical Theory of Change in Couples Work

Chapter 4: The Transformative Role of Experiments in Gestalt Couples Therapy

Part III: The Field and Connection

Chapter 5: Field Theory in Couples Therapy

Chapter 6: Shame, the Pathos of the Field

Chapter 7: The Cycle of Connection - Movement Between Contact and Withdrawal

Part IV: Integration and Practice

Chapter 8: Creative Indifference: Conflict and the Therapist's Centred Presence

Chapter 9: Integration with Other Modalities

Conclusion: Beyond the Therapy Room

Biography

Nicole Chew-Helbig PhD is a certified Integrative Gestalt psychotherapist and counsellor based in Singapore. She holds a doctorate in Psychotherapy Science from Sigmund Freud University, Vienna. She is a member of the Singapore Association of Counselling, and the Singapore Psychological Society.