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A Therapist’s Handbook to Dissolve Shame and Defense
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September 29, 2021 Forthcoming by Routledge
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Book Description

The effort to surmount shame and formidable defenses in psychotherapy can trigger shame and self-doubt in therapists. Susan Warren Warshow offers a user-friendly-guide to help therapists move past common treatment barriers. This unique book avoids jargon and breaks down complex concepts into digestible elements for practical application. The core principles of Dynamic Emotional Focused Therapy (DEFT), a comprehensive treatment approach for demonstrable change, are illustrated with rich and abundant clinical vignettes. 

This engaging, often lyrical handbook emphasizes "shame-sensitivity" to create the safety necessary to achieve profound interpersonal connection. Often overlooked in treatment, shame can undermine the entire process. The author explains the "therapeutic transfer of compassion for self," a relational phenomenon that purposefully generates affective expression. She introduces a three-step, robust framework, The Healing Triad, to orient therapists to intervene effectively when the winds of resistance arise. Chapters clarify:

  • Why we focus on feelings
  • How to identify and move beyond shame and anxiety
  • How to transform toxic guilt into reparative actions
  • How to disarm defenses while avoiding ruptures

This book is essential reading for both advanced and newly practicing mental health practitioners striving to access the profound emotions in their clients for transformative change.

Table of Contents

Introduction: Sitting on Therapeutic Gold 1. Warrior Therapist 2. I Don't Feel Like Feeling 3. Bringing Goals Into Focus 4. Forging a Life-Altering Alliance 5. The Healing Triad: Bypassing Barriers 6. Shame is the Gatekeeper 7. Anxiety: Static on the Airwaves 8. Grappling with Guilt 9. Disarming Defenses DEFTly 10. When the Dam Breaks 11. The People Whisperer

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Biography

Susan Warren Warshow, LCSW, LMFT, is the founder of the Dynamic Emotion Focused Therapy Institute (DEFT), an international presenter, a faculty member of the ISTDP Institute, and a Certified IEDTA Teacher/Supervisor. She has published several professional journal articles. She treats individuals and couples and offers clinical supervision.

She has presented at the Brief Therapy Conferences, IEDTA biennial international conferences, SEPI and NASW conferences, several Los Angeles County Psychological Association conventions and chapters of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. She has lectured at California State University Northridge, California Graduate Institute, and the California School of Professional Psychology.

Her former employment includes Psychotherapist, Supervisor and Coordinator of Continuing Education at the Department of Psychiatry at Northridge Hospital. At the Center for the Improvement of Child Caring, she produced over 100 public presentations on child abuse and neglect in L.A. County and was the media director for L.A.'s first child abuse hotline.

Reviews

"The Dynamic Emotion Focused therapy of Susan Warshow spotlights advances in psychotherapy that bring new luster to the clinical work of both doyens and tyros. Clear, concise writing and illuminating transcripts sharpen the realization of practical principles. The author is an expert who will enliven the development of your expertise."

Jeffrey K. Zeig, Ph.D., The Milton H. Erickson Foundation

"Doing psychotherapy is a paradox. All day, every day, you are with people. And yet, when it comes to helping your client in the moment, you are utterly alone. A Therapist’s Handbook to Dissolve Shame and Defense fills the void. Like a wise mentor, Susan Warren Warshow senses the challenges you will face and steps in with sage advice."
 
Scott D. Miller, Ph.D.
Director, International Center for Clinical Excellence

"Every therapist faces the challenge of how to empathize with the wholeness of the patient: her longings, her anxiety, and the behaviors that prevent her from fulfilling her longings. In A Therapist’s Handbook to Dissolve Shame and Defense, Susan Warshow beautifully illustrates through numerous vignettes how to help patients face avoided feelings and move beyond anxiety and defenses that prevent them from pursuing their passions. For any therapist who wants to deepen their capacity for empathy, compassion, and deeper healing, this book is a must read."

Jon Frederickson, MSW, faculty, Washington School of Psychiatry

Author of Co-Creating Change, The Lies We Tell Ourselves, and Co-Creating Safety: Healing the Fragile Client

"With wisdom and clarity, Dr. Warshow provides key concepts to enable clinicians to work effectively with shame—both our own and that of our patients. Referring to shame as "the gatekeeper in therapy", she provides moving clinical vignettes to illustrate its powerful role in development, its relationship to anxiety, its protective signal function for survival. Rather than attacking shame, she teaches us how to guide patients in recognizing shame and to make use of the transformative power of compassion."

Pamela J. McCrory, Ph.D.
Licensed Psychologist PSY 12094
Assistant Clinical Professor
Department of Psychiatry and Biobehavioral Sciences, UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine
Co-Chair, Arts, Creativity and Culture Committee
Los Angeles County Psychological Association 

"Susan Warshow's book offers an essential contribution to psychotherapists and students in clinical settings, focusing on the centrality of shame in emotional suffering. She highlights psychotherapy elements that facilitate greater self-acceptance and social intimacy. Well-chosen client examples bring her conceptualizations to life and demonstrate the nuances of an attuned approach to working with shame and defense in psychotherapy. 

Her honest personal sharing accents the book in a thought-provoking way, and her astute insights are free of unnecessary jargon. A Therapist’s Handbook to Dissolve Shame and Defense amplifies that shame is a gateway to emotional integration. Many authors theorize about the meaning of compassion. However, this book demonstrates what this profoundly important phenomenon looks like in actual therapeutic encounters. A Therapist’s Handbook to Dissolve Shame and Defense speaks more to being present, gently challenging, and leaning into the shame experiences that emerge not only in the client but also in the therapist. How the therapist meets that difficult emotion is key, and the overall premise is that one cannot be present to the shame in another if one cannot face those experiences within oneself. Her gift to therapists is to encourage authenticity, and she has generously offered her own processes as the conduit for showing the way."

Juliet Rohde-Brown, Ph.D.

Chair, Depth Psychology: Integrative Therapy and Healing Practices Specialization 

Pacifica Graduate Institute

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

"Susan Warren Warshow’s book is a must read for every clinician! The author’s compassion shines through every page. Elegantly written in simple language, her personal style sinks under theory to reveal embodied exchanges within the nitty gritty of emotional healing. Warshow offers the wisdom and humility of a seasoned practitioner alongside the courage to reveal insecurities and vulnerabilities that inevitably emerge when working with deepest wounds to the self." 

Terry Marks-Tarlow, Ph.D.

Private practice in Santa Monica, California.

Conducts workshops and trainings internationally.

Author of A Fractal Epistemology for a Scientific Psychology (2020, Cambridge Scholars), Play & Creativity in Psychotherapy (2017), Awakening Clinical Intuition (2014, Norton), and Clinical Intuition in Psychotherapy (2012, Norton).   

"If you are a therapist struggling personally and professionally in client sessions, read Susan Warren Warshow. She offers a practical guide with ample vignettes for clinicians who feel stuck yet have the courage to slow down and start making subtle, significant shifts to strengthen their skills." 

Dr. Stan Tatkin, Psy.D., MFT, author of Wired for Love and We Do

"Susan Warren Warshow has written a valuable book to guide therapists deeper into the life-changing alliance with their clients that fosters enthusiasm and real growth for both participants. Covering all the important bases of resistance, anxiety, guilt, shame, and especially compassion, Warshow offers detailed process descriptions of her Dynamic Emotion Focused Therapy (DEFT), providing succinct in-session transcripts of meaningful therapeutic exchanges and outcomes. A Therapist’s Handbook to Dissolve Shame and Defense is an inspiring book to read, to reflect on, and to savor the warmth and wisdom emanating from each page."

Stella Resnick, Ph.D., author of Body-to-Body Intimacy: Transformation through Love, Sex, and Neurobiology (2019)

Creator of the Embodied Relational Sex Therapy (ERST) training