1st Edition

Beyond Individualism Toward a New Understanding of Self, Relationship, and Experience

By Gordon Wheeler Copyright 2000
    404 Pages
    by Gestalt Press

    402 Pages
    by Gestalt Press

    In this pathbreaking and provocative new treatment of some of the oldest dilemmas of psychology and relationship, Gordon Wheeler challenges the most basic tenet of the West cultural tradition: the individualist self. Characteristics of this self-model are our embedded yet pervasive ideas that the individual self precedes and transcends relationship and social field conditions and that interpersonal experience is somehow secondary and even opposed to the needs of the inner self. Assumptions like these, Wheeler argues, which are taken to be inherent to human nature and development, amount to a controlling cultural paradigm that does considerable violence to both our evolutionary self-nature and our intuitive self-experience.  He asserts that we are actually far more relational and intersubjective than our cultural generally allows and that these relational capacities are deeply built into our inherent evolutionary nature.

    His argument progresses from the origins and lineage of the Western individualist self-model, into the basis for a new model of the self, relationship, and experience out of the insights and implications of Gestalt psychology and its philosophical derivatives, deconstructivism and social constructionism.  From there, in a linked series of experiential chapters, each of them a groundbreaking essay in its own right, he takes up the essential dynamic themes of self-experience and relational life: interpersonal orientation, meaning-making and adaptation, support, shame, intimacy, and finally narrative and gender, culminating in considerations of health, ethics, politics, and spirit.  The result is a picture and an experience of self that is grounded in the active dynamics of attention, problem solving, imagination, interpretation, evaluation, emotion, meaning-making, narration, and, above all, relationship. By the final section, the reader comes away with a new sense of what it means to be human and a new and more usable definition of health.

    I. The Problem of Self: In Search of a New Paradigm
    1. The Legacy of Individualism - The Paradigm in Practice
    2. Constructing a New Model
    II. The Self in the Social Field: Relationship and Contact
    3. The Self in Relation - Orienting and Contacting in the Social Field
    4. The Self in Contact Integration and Process in the Living Field
    III. Support, Shame, and Intimacy: The Self in Development
    5. Support and Development - The Self in the Field
    6. Shame and Inhibition - The Self in the Broken Field
    7. The Restoration of Self - Intimacy, Intersubjectivity, and Dialogue
    IV. The Integrated Self: Narrative, Culture, and Health
    8. Self as Story - Narrative, Culture, and Gender
    Conclusion: Ethics, Ecology, and Spirit - The Healthy Self


    Gordon Wheeler, Ph.D., is a therapist in private practice, and teaches the Gestalt model widely around the globe. As author, editor, and translator he has contributed to a number of other books and articles in the literature of Gestalt, including The Collective Silence, On Intimate Ground, The Voice of Shame, and The Heart of Development. He also writes on issues of masculinity and men's development.

    "In a world with an 'acute sense of ill fit between received wisdom and lived experience,' Gordon Wheeler's groundbreaking work offers context, map, and compass to help us fin new answers to old questions of who we are and what it means to be human."

    - Michael Murphy, Co-Founder, Esalen Institute

    "...a passionate, intelligent, and thorough portrayal of the partnership between individual existence and the communal forces within which we all live."

    Erving Polster, author, From the Radical Center