1st Edition

Breaking Negative Eating Patterns and Remembering Your True Self A Self-Help and Support Book

By Susan Simpson Copyright 2026
302 Pages 12 Color Illustrations
by Routledge

302 Pages 12 Color Illustrations
by Routledge

This book is a practical self-help manual that provides step-by-step guidance on applying schema therapy for eating disorders and eating difficulties. Structured in two parts, the book addresses how to overcome the thinking, emotional and behavioural patterns that drive eating difficulties, using powerful experiential strategies for change. It helps readers understand the factors that drive and... Read more

Introduction: How to Use this Book

CHAPTER 1: Understanding Your Eating Difficulties—A Novel Whole-Self Approach

CHAPTER 2: When Eating Difficulties Emerge: How Temperament, Culture, and Connection Intertwine

CHAPTER 3: Meeting Your Inner Crew

CHAPTER 4: Understanding Your Survival Crew

CHAPTER 5: Remembering Your Wise Self—Creating the Foundation for Healing

CHAPTER 6: Protecting the Lost Child—Setting Boundaries and Building Connection

CHAPTER 7: Bringing Your Child on Deck—Working Safely with Strong Emotions

CHAPTER 8: Changing Eating Behaviours and Reconnecting with Your Body

CHAPTER 9: Changing Relationships and Absorbing Emotional Vitamins

CHAPTER 10: Discovering Your Authentic Self—Reclaiming the Person Beneath the Performance

CHAPTER 11: Overcoming Trauma in eating disorders

CAHPTER 12: The Voyage Continues

 

Biography

Susan Simpson, DClinPsy, is an Australian Clinical Psychologist and Schema Therapist who has lived and worked in Scotland for over 25 years. She is both a clinician and researcher, specialising in whole-person trauma-informed approaches to eating disorders, and is co-author of clinician guides Schema Therapy for Eating Disorders (Routledge) and the Cambridge Guide to Schema Therapy (Cambridge Univ. Press).

“Eating disorders can be very difficult to overcome. Even if one is able to access psychotherapy, there are days and often weeks between appointments. This is where this self-help book comes into its own providing an innovative array of practical tools to assist with the journey towards recovery. It is easy to read and understand and provides essential clinical skills to deal with the significant challenges that confront those with an eating disorder. With this book by your side, you will not feel alone. It is a wonderful resource to have.”

Emeritus Professor Stephen Touyz, University of SydneyAustralia

Breaking Negative Thinking Patterns and Remembering Your True Self distils theory and knowledge of schema therapy and related modalities with the author’s clinical wisdom. The result is an engaging, compassionate and practical resource which is well placed to enhance in-person therapy and/or provide guidance towards recovery for people experiencing eating disorders.”

Professor Phillipa Hay, Western Sydney University, Australia

“’The true self is calling. It’s time to come home.’ This is Susan Simpson’s message to anyone struggling with an eating disorder. This is in the spirit of influential figures like Kierkegaard, Nietzsche, Jung and Winnicott who pointed to the centrality of finding and living from one’s authentic self. With rich clinical examples and approachable everyday metaphors and exercises, this wonderful book shows that this is no abstract idea, but a project that can be intelligently and compassionately embarked on in very practical ways. Her lucid synthesis of current scientific research with clinical insights from the increasingly influential schema therapy approach, Simpson shows how deadening psychological patterns that result in mere surviving, rather than energized thriving, can be understood and steadily and radically transformed. I will be recommending this book widely and not only to clients with eating disorders.”

Reference

Kalsched, D. (2013). Trauma and the soul: A psycho-spiritual approach to human development and its interruption. Routledge.

Professor David Edwards, Rhodes University, South Africa

 

“Grounded in decades of clinical practice, this deeply wise and wonderfully practical book draws on key strands of contemporary psychotherapy to guide readers on a clear and flexible path to integration and recovery. Highly recommended for individuals experiencing eating or other mental health difficulties, as well as carers, clinicians, and all who want to better understand the beautiful messiness of being human.”

Dr. Beth Shelton, Counselling Psychologist and Eating Disorder Sector leader