1st Edition

Living, Loving and Loss The Interplay of Intimacy, Sexuality and Grief

By Brad DeFord, Richard Gilbert Copyright 2013
252 Pages
by Routledge

252 Pages
by Routledge

252 Pages
by Routledge

One of the unspoken aspects of mourning concerns the ways that loss affects our intimate relationships and our sexual expressiveness. This text opens these subjects for conversation, with the aim of promoting the trust, care, and respect that enable us to be vulnerable. It purposefully covers a range of topics, including: (1) the meaning of intimacy and the significance of sexuality, providing a... Read more

Foreword
Brad Hunter

Preface
Brad DeFord and Richard B. Gilbert

Acknowledgments

Introduction
Brad DeFord


SECTION 1: Death, Grief, and Differences of Sexual Orientation


CHAPTER 1
 Death and Intimacy Issues in the LGBT Community: A Gay Perspective
Ronald L. Attrell

CHAPTER 2
 Young People and Gender Issues: Living with Loss
Linda Goldman


SECTION 2: Loss of Relationship and the Restoration of Intimacy in Families


CHAPTER 3
 Momma’s Dead and Daddy’s on Viagra!: Elder Widowers, ED Drugs, and New Romantic Relationships
Harold Ivan Smith

CHAPTER 4
 Grieving a Not-So-Loved Parent: Sinking in the Mud of Hurtful Memories
Richard B. Gilbert

CHAPTER 5
 Infertility and Intimacy: Life’s Layered Losses
Darcy L. Harris

CHAPTER 6
 The Tolls of War: Intimacy and Sexuality Challenges for Soldiers and Their Families
M. Douglas Harvey


SECTION 3: Adjusting to Life’s Losses by Aging or Illness or Infirmity


CHAPTER 7
 Birth of a Stranger: Intimacy, Sexuality, and Dementia
Sara Sanders and Joelle Osterhaus

CHAPTER 8
 Love, Life, and Losses After 50
Anne Katz

CHAPTER 9
 Intimacy, Sex and Hospice: Self-Determination, Dignity, and Intimacy Options at the End of Life
Sherri Weisenfluh and Vicki Merrill


SECTION 4: Religious Bases for Understanding Intimacy, Sexuality, and Healing After Loss


CHAPTER 10
 Living, Loving, and Losing: A Spiritual Reflection Through the Eyes of a Rabbi
Daniel A. Roberts

CHAPTER 11
 Engaging the Christian Voice in Defining (and Redefining) What Is Right
David Daubert and Robert D. Machamer

Afterword: Toward a Spirituality of Love and Longing
Brad DeFord

Bibliography
Richard B. Gilbert

Index

Biography

DeFord, Brad; Gilbert, Richard