1st Edition
The Everyday Lives of Gay Men Autoethnographies of the Ordinary
Foreword
Ken Plummer
Introduction: What is conjured when we talk about the everyday lives of gay men?
Edgar Rodríguez-Dorans and Jason Holmes
1. 17 Times a day I think of being gay
David Lowbridge-Ellis
2. Shower thoughts – of loss and queer love
Randall C. Lopez
3. Christmases past and present: A Phet tee saam lamb’s search for their flock
Panu Sahassanon
4. Sunday: An intimate self-dialogue about loneliness
Cináed Thomas
5. On (not) living past 30
Tony E. Adams
6. Going back to the glory hole: An (extra)ordinary story of meeting shame, doubt, and arousal in the therapy room
Seamus Prior
7. Becoming (in)visible: A performative autoethnography on mental health, help-seeking, and missing connections
Willem J. Stander
8. Lack of ordinary privileges in a gay man’s life: Navigating through privileged systems
Yasin Koc
9. I dreamt of a stranger
Julian Triandafyllou
10. Testing proximity and intimacy: An everyday reappropriation of private and public space
Edgar Rodríguez-Dorans
11. In my Latinx gay shoes: Work, discrimination, immigration, and polyamory
Oscar Pantoja Guzmán
12. Planetary times and queer times: A critical planetary romanticism for the earth
Whitney A. Bauman
13. Notes on the contributor’s experiences: Insights into autoethnographic research
Edgar Rodríguez-Dorans and Jason Holmes
Conclusion
Edgar Rodríguez-Dorans and Jason Holmes
Biography
Edgar Rodríguez-Dorans is a qualitative researcher and mental health practitioner interested in the study of identities, sexualities, the everyday lives of LGBTQIA+ people, and the use of performing arts in research. He completed a PhD in counselling studies at the University of Edinburgh. He is a lecturer in counselling and psychotherapy at the University of Salford.
Jason Holmes works as a psychotherapist and writer. His research examines the ways gay male friendship groups can take on qualities commonly associated with cults and the emotional harm such groups can inflict on their members. He completed his doctorate in psychotherapy at the University of Edinburgh and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.
