1st Edition

Welcoming Strangers Nonviolent Re-Parenting of Children in Foster Care

202 Pages
by Routledge

202 Pages
by Routledge

202 Pages
by Routledge

Jane Hall Fitz-Gibbon and Andrew Fitz-Gibbon have cared for more than 100 children in a foster care career spanning more than three decades. They developed a method, "loving nonviolent re-parenting," to best care for foster children. "Re-parenting" represents the complex task of caring for children who have been parented already, often inadequately, and mostly involving physical, emotional,... Read more

Contents

Acknowledgments

A Note about Language

Introduction: Welcoming Strangers

1 Responding to a Major Need

2 The Multiple Violences Suffered by Children in Care

3 Larger Houses, More Children

4 Thinking Further about Violence

5 Why Re-parenting?

6 Teens, Tantrums, Sex, and Substance Abuse

7 A Question of Ethics: How Shall We Live?

8 The Long Term: Permanence, Adoption, Returning Home, and Keeping in Touch

9 Spanking, Discipline, and Nonviolence

10 Loving Nonviolent Habits and Virtues

11 Second-Hand Shock Syndrome and Caring for Yourself

12 Praxis: Creating a Nonviolent Home with the Ordinariness of Love

Addendum: Money Can’t Buy Me Love

Appendix: Definitions of Child Abuse, Maltreatment, and Neglect in New York

References

Index

Biography

Jane Hall Fitz-Gibbon, Andrew Fitz-Gibbon