Most of us don’t seek advice or reach out to others for help very easily. In part, it’s because we’re conditioned to see life as an individual endeavor rather than a team sport. Or because we believe that asking for help makes us look weak or incapable. We regard self-help as by-yourself-help. News flash: no one in the history of the world has ever achieved any level of happiness or success totally by themselves.
In his 1976 book The Long Run Solution, Joe Henderson suggested that becoming truly accomplished at running (or at anything) doesn’t typically require us to perform superhuman feats. In fact, success is frequently realized by those who simply do the things anyone can do that most of us never will.
In What Anyone Can Do, with the help of Leo Bottary’s Year of the Peer podcasts guests (and playful illustrations by Ryan Foland), you’ll discover that if you surround yourself with the right people, you’ll do the things anyone can do far more often. And when you do that, you and the people around you will realize more of what you want out of business and life. It’s that simple.
The Power of Peers (2016) made a strong case for how and why formal peer groups are so effective. This book steps outside the formal peer group arena to examine all the important relationships we have in our lives (parents, teachers, spouses, mentors, children, mentees, etc.) and provides a practical approach and specific framework for harnessing their power for your benefit (and theirs). It’s what anyone can do. You’re anyone, right?
Table of Contents
Foreword by Dan Hoffman, Founder and CEO of Circles
Introduction: How Will Doing What Anyone Can Do Help Me? Chapter 1: No One Does It Alone, So Why Should You?
Chapter 2: The Power of Exploring, Discovering, and Expressing What You Want
Chapter 3: Building Your Dream Team and Keeping Squares Out of Your Circle
Chapter 4: The Yin and Yang of Expectations and Goals
Chapter 5: We Learn Better When We Learn Together
Chapter 6: Asking Questions and Listening for Understanding
Chapter 7: Communication and the Power of the Safe Haven
Chapter 8: Good Givers Are Great Getters
Chapter 9: Why Being a Good Teammate Matters
Chapter 10: High-Performing Groups and High-Performing Teams
Chapter 11: Crafting a People Plan
Chapter 12: A Call to Action and Poetry
Leo Bottary -- author
Leo Bottary is an author, keynote speaker, and workshop facilitator on the topic of developing "peer advantage" for high performing teams and peer groups. During a six-year tenure at Vistage Worldwide, Leo led the rebranding of the company and directed a thought leadership initiative on the power of peers, which resulted in a book he coauthored with Leon Shapiro titled: The Power of Peers: How the Company You Keep Drives Leadership, Growth & Success (2016).
Leo also serves as an instructor for Rutgers and Northeastern universities. Prior to that, he was an adjunct professor for Seton Hall University, where he led graduate-level online learning teams and on campus residencies. In April 2015, he was named adjunct teacher of the year for its College of Communication and the Arts.
Earlier in his career, Leo served in senior leadership positions at Mullen and Hill & Knowlton, where he was also Director of Client Service for the US. In the mid-1990s, he founded a public relations agency that a leading industry trade publication hailed as a regional powerhouse, new media pioneer, and great place to work.
Leo earned a BA from Jacksonville University, an MA in Strategic Communication and Leadership from Seton Hall University, and has completed his doctoral coursework at Northeastern University.
Ryan Foland -- illustrator
As Managing Partner of InfluenceTree, Ryan Foland helps executives harness the power of vulnerability and authenticity to build a better, more relatable, more profitable brand. Recognized by Inc. Magazine as a Top Youth Marketer and named a Top Personal Branding Expert by Entrepreneur Magazine, Ryan helps thought leaders create and syndicate content that reveals their whole self to drive differentiation, growth, and loyalty. His 3-1-3® Method empowers employees to express their value in relation to the company and gives leaders a way to translate complex business systems into language that’s relatable for customers. Ryan highlights the expertise of people within companies as the core talent behind the corporate brand, which drives reputation, trust and more clients to their businesses.
A student of keeping things simple and powerful, Ryan is also a stick figure artist. Starting as a personal challenge from Tony Robbins in 2015, Ryan creates daily stick figure drawings that both inspire and give insights of how to better communicate your personal brand. His unique drawings are very popular across social media and you can find them featured in children’s books, business books, blogs, websites, news publications and more. Learn more about Ryan and the problems he solves by visiting ryanfoland.com.
"What Anyone Can Do is engaging, enjoyable, and just plain fun to read. With the well-honed skills of a master storyteller, Leo Bottary shares delightful tales and practical takeaways from scores of engaging conversations with fascinating people around the central theme of supporting and learning from each other. His style is over-a-cup-of-coffee casual, but the lessons he conveys are vital to your success in work and in life. I found it immensely valuable, and you will, too."
- Jim Kouzes, coauthor of The Leadership Challenge and the Dean’s Executive Fellow of Leadership, Leavey School of Business, Santa Clara University
"Leo makes a clear case for something many people understand intuitively, but don't always practice. You will do better in life and be more successful if you don't try and do it alone. His anecdotes, advice and wisdom are worth the read."
- JJ Ramberg, Host of Your Business (MSNBC) and Business Owner
"Our wealth is in our brains and our networks, but few of us know how to tapthe second. Leo’s new book advances the narrative of his previous excellent book, The Power of Peers, by embracing the full range of people who surround us. He makes a powerful case that our happiness and success can be found among those who we invite into our circle. Enlisting the support of others to help us realize our dreams is something anyone can do. This fine book shows you how."
- Rich Karlgaard, Publisher and Futurist, Forbes Media
"Leo has brought clarity and inspiration to the subject of connection within corporate structures. There has never been a more imperative time than today for us to become proactive around the necessity of teams built with healthy bones, empathy, trust, and resilience. This is elaborated upon by way of interviews and real-life scenarios that will help managers and senior executives take brave steps forward to further bring connection to their teams. I see myself sharing this book throughout our agency."
- Claude Silver, Chief Heart Officer, VaynerMedia
"If you want to make better decisions in life, surround yourself with good people. It’s never too late. Leo’s in my circle. You’d be wise to add him to yours too."
- @BrianSolis, digital anthropologist, futurist, author of X: The Experience
"What Anyone Can Do is a brilliant primer on what we can all do as leaders to surround ourselves with a strategic network of peers who will challenge our ideas, drive us to be more disciplined, and share in our success. For all of those committed to continuous self improvement, you will find that Leo has built a step by step guide to turn aspirations into actions."
- Sam Reese, CEO, Vistage Worldwide
"Today, the smartest person in the room IS the room. Few people understand that more than Leo Bottary. This book is your step by step guide to embracing the greatest untapped and most underutilized resource we have has individuals and organizations for reaching our goals; each other."
- Angela Maiers, Founder, Choose2Matter
"We each live a human life in which we impact and are impacted by others. Leo’s passion and this excellent book provide us the mindset and tools to live more fully."
- Scott Mordell, CEO of YPO
"I must say...Leo Bottary's new book, What Anyone Can Do, is one full of golden wisdom preserved for us and the generations to come. The book is right on target when explaining why some individuals make quantum leaps in their life while others are just scared to leap. It breaks down why surrounding yourself with the right people is not only important but a gift that you MUST unwrap. Make a decision and read this book because that is definitely a great action step that Any One Can Do! Keep bringing the fire Leo!"
- Rahfeal Gordon, Global Leadership Advisor + Entrepreneur
"While everyone around us is trying to build a career, a fortune, a reputation and so on, Leo Bottary is busy building people. In the end, it's all about people and no one knows that better than Leo. If you find yourself endlessly fascinating (as I find myself), you want to know how Leo sees it."
- Lewis Schiff, Chairman, Birthing of Giants
"Human beings have formed communities of practice to address shared challenges since the beginning of history. They are at the heart of what makes us human. These learning partnerships among peers have been the key to our success as a species. And in very concrete and personal ways, Leo Bottary reminds us that they are how we create our future."
- Etienne and Beverly Wenger-Trayner, authors of Learning in Landscapes of Practice
"People look for answers to life's problems in the self-help aisle, but they should grab this book instead. Leo's take on teamwork stands out. Whatever your personal and professional goals, he shares a simple truth: it's the people around you who will help you get there. Leo has laid out a step by step "people plan" for individuals and teams that shows exactly how leveraging and supporting a strategic network will get you through the worst of times and will lead to the best of times. An approachable and entertaining read, it's one that you will need to buy multiple copies of. One for you, and some for the friends who surround you."
- Ryan Foland, Managing Partner, InfluenceTree
"Success requires discipline…and a village. In order to be successful in business, you have to do things that other people won’t do and do them continuously. Leo’s book challenges readers to take a hard look at themselves to see what they’re willing to do to be disciplined enough to reach the next level."
- Jeffrey Hayzlett, Primetime TV & Radio Host, Speaker, Author and Part-Time Cowboy
"My story about starting my business is very similar to Bottary's—especially the immaturity and defiance part. The only difference between our two stories is that I found Vistage before I ran out of cash and my group kicked my financial butt into gear. Without them, my story would have ended much the same. What Anyone Can Do is a breath of fresh air about the need for a coach, accountability partner, or peer group. If there is a goal we want to achieve, it has to involve some sort of help and Bottary details who you should include in your network. This book will be the holiday gift for all of our clients and every one of my friends who owns a business."
- Gini Dietrich, CEO of Arment Dietrich and founder and author of Spin Sucks
"There is no one more qualified than Leo to bring the world a little closer together. This book is a must read for everyone who wants to acquire the ninja skills needed to build a bulletproof network in business and life."
- Brian Mac Mahon, Sensei, Expert DOJO
"Leo drives home, with overwhelming evidence, how anything can be accomplished with a vision and a group of people to support you along that journey. I’m reminded of the poet John Dunn’s famous words: no person is an island unto themselves." Those who pretend to be island need to wake up, read this book and start to harness the power of diverse expertise and accountability that peer boards maximize. You can do anything and peers are a crucial ingredient to success."
- Peter C. Fuller, President, LiveFused and Vistage Chair
"How often have you thought of yourself as ‘the only one’ who is experiencing both the good and the bad? How often have you suddenly found comfort, solace and a new lease on life by looking around at the people who surround you? We have made choices about those with whom we work, play, socialize and love. Leo Bottary’s book, What Anyone Can Do is a comforting hand, a pat on the shoulder and an absolute command that we pay attention to those that surround us and step out of our isolationism. It is a reminder of Mick Jagger’s comment, ‘You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you might find, you get what you need.’"
- Cecelia K. Houser, Ed.D., Principal, Korn Ferry/Hay Group
What Anyone Can Do Trailer
Introducing the brand new book What Anyone Can Do by Leo Bottary!
Animation by: Ryan Foland
What Anyone Can Do Trailer
Introducing the brand new book What Anyone Can Do by Leo Bottary!
Animation by: Ryan Foland