1st Edition

Wrestling with the Angel Literary Writings and Reflections on Death, Dying and Bereavement

By Kent Koppelman, Dale Lund Copyright 2010
168 Pages
by Routledge

158 Pages
by Routledge

168 Pages
by Routledge

Wrestling with the Angel addresses the human struggle to cope with death, dying, grief, and bereavement. The book includes essays, a one-act play, a short story, and poetry, including shape poems, rhyming, structured verse, and free verse. In the one-act play, an angel of death comes for a man who has lived an unexamined life and wants to explain why he is not prepared to leave. The short story... Read more

Foreword:  Explains the genesis of this book, identifies previously published material and new material, and highlights issues that are addressed in each of the chapters.

Chapter One:
 Describes a father's grief journey that is initiated by the death of his son, raising many questions and an anger reflected in the poem.

Chapter Two:
 Explores the theme of mortality, as in the one-act play where a man who is not prepared to die objects when an angel of death comes for him.

Chapter Three:
 Describes how two parents grieve by inventing rituals and searching for other meaningful activities to help them heal from the unexpected death of their child.

Chapter Four:
 Discusses a point in a father's grief journey where he has been influenced by the stories of others and begins to accept his child's death.

Chapter Five:
 Examines responses to an expected death and explains how knowing that someone is dying does not diminish the sense of loss when the person dies.

Chapter Six:
 Explains how an awareness of death does not have to lead to despair but can become a critical factor for enhancing one's quality of life.

Chapter Seven:
 Describes a bittersweet quality about aging - although people lose physical and mental abilities, they may use life experiences to gain a better perspective.

Chapter Eight:
 Discusses reasons why human beings need to consciously work on being prepared for their own death intellectually and spiritually and explores what such preparation involves.

Afterword:
 Consists of comments from well-known people just before they died.

 

 

Biography

Kent Koppelman, Dale Lund